What Pride Means to Me

In the year 2000, my best friend and I moved from Bexhill-on-Sea to the big bad city – Brighton. We moved because we wanted more from life than that small retirement town could offer us. Mostly though, we moved because she was into girls and there weren’t many ‘out’ women back then (that we knew of anyway). So many times my friend would lament the fact that she wasn’t ‘normal’ and I would always wonder what normal was anyway.

Since then we’ve enjoyed many amazing Pride weekends, nights at Wild Fruit and one time a drag queen swung her handbag at my head and left a scar. Those were the glory days and solidified something within me – that I was part of something amazing, finally a city where I belonged.

Many of my friends are LGBT+ so Pride is incredibly important to them and to me. I’m older and more square than I used to be so don’t often venture to the park anymore but I’m always at the parade, which I love more than anything. It never fails to bring a lump to my throat. I want to live in a world that accepts everybody from all walks of life for who they are. Being part of this day makes me believe it can happen, even if we still have a long way to go.

As a white middle-aged heterosexual woman, I try to be a good ally – but I know there is so much more I can do to show my support and I’m learning how to do that every day.


I wrote this for a Pride work competition and thought I’d share it here.

What does Pride mean to you?

2 thoughts on “What Pride Means to Me

  1. Pride means similar things to me. As a straight, I feel a little bit like maybe I shouldn’t join in, but then I figure I’m supporting all of the wonderful people in my life who are LGBT+ and that can’t be a bad thing. I also moved from a small town (with even smaller minded people), and so as someone who has spent a large part of my life feeling like an outcast or feeling like they didn’t belong, it’s lovely to now live in a place that very much feels like anything goes. Brighton offers acceptance for more than just the LGBT+ community and for that reason I feel proud to live here.

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